Tips on Conversation When Dating

How to make your dating conversations successful, easy and enjoyable

Dating conversations are so much more challenging than talking to your best friend.

There's much more added ‘pressure' to say the right thing, to be witty and engaging. Then comes the ultimate judging – do you get the date or not?

You probably know that dating is a numbers game.

If you want to find your Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie then you need to be getting more dates. And if your conversation isn't up to it, you're missing out on lots of opportunities.

Wouldn't you rather be turning dates away because you don't have time to fit them in?

Instead you probably feel like you're doing yourself a disservice by not revealing the true you when you're out trying to get dates?

If the people you met got to know the real you the first time, then how many more potential partners would want to date you? You owe it to yourself to find a way to do this now.

So STOP, suspend your doubting thoughts for a few moments, and…

Picture yourself a few weeks from now, sitting down at your next speed dating event, or walking over to that gorgeous hunk or glamorous woman at your favourite bar and getting the date you want …

• How fantastic would it be to truly enjoy a fun dating conversation?
• What if you were supremely confident because you kicked off with any one of your 5 sure-fire conversation starters?
• How would it feel to be able to pluck intriguing topics from your new repertoire?
• How would it feel to make your partner desire you in such a way that they're almost guaranteed to want to see you again?
• How ecstatic would you be to transform your first conversation into a date?

How would it feel to actually love dating conversations?

Yes. Wouldn't it be amazing to actually love getting into dating conversations? And I do mean truly enjoy, revel in, have a ball, get a real kick out of - dating conversations.

Not only that, but to know that you can turn as many conversations into dates as you need to keep your diary stuffed full for weeks in advance.

In this short letter, you're going to find out about the secrets to successful dating conversation – everything you need to know to enjoy your dating conversations and get tons more of those dates you're longing for.

You probably know that if you want better conversation (and more dates as a result), you must learn to make your conversations exciting for your partner. But what do you say to make the difference between your next potential partner being a date rather than another rejection?

You may even be wondering are you capable of changing your conversation skills? Once you've read every word of this I think you'll be happy that you can.

Flying jets - No problem.
Dating conversation? That's another matter!

Let me tell you about one of my recent clients. He's a pilot. Flying Harrier jets in the RAF – regularly running ground hugging missions. Flying at speeds in excess of 600 knots. With enough in the way of missiles and ammo to shoot down or blow up just about anything in his path. If you pictured James Bond, you wouldn't be too far short.

This man seems to have it all. He's even good looking too! I'd forgive you for hating him, except he's a genuinely nice guy. So you'd imagine that his path would be littered with fantastic relationships if not showered with potential dates. But it just wasn't happening for him.

There was no earthly reason why he shouldn't have had a string of fantastic girlfriends – except…

He lacked one thing

I'll tell you what that was in just a second.

But, just for a minute, put yourself in the seat of his jet …

Imagine what guts it takes to fly it virtually touching the speed of sound. Imagine going into combat in hostile territory with anti aircraft fire trying to blast you into oblivion. Or to risk your life in a dog fight with enemy aircraft when called upon to do so. This guy has self confidence in skip loads.

But the one area he wasn't confident in?

Talking to potential partners.

In this area, he'd lost confidence.

Why?

Because he lacked that one thing I mentioned above.

The skills to talk to potential partners and win dates.

Conversation success comes from the skills

He just didn't have the skills necessary to get the dates he wanted. And if you don't have the skills in any area of your life, you won't be confident.

All he needed to do was learn the skills, practice them till he had some good experiences under his belt and soon he'd have all the confidence he needed.

The RAF knows this. They'd spent millions of dollars training him for years to be one of their top pilots. (Flying a $25m jet and risking your own life takes a bit longer to learn than conversation skills!) Yet no one had ever taught him how to hold successful dating conversations.

Yeh, I know – that's not the RAF's job… but it is mine – I taught Mark the secrets you're just about to read.

I worked with Mark for a short period of time, sharing some of the skills he needed to make his dating conversations successful.

Here's what Mark actually wrote to me:

If only people knew the real you

I may be hallucinating, but I'm guessing you're somewhat like Mark. You're probably a genuinely nice person. I'm sure you have a few, if not a lot of close friends who love you for who you are.

When people get to know you, you're likely to become friends quite easily. And you find it easy to talk to them, because you know them well.

But when it comes to dating conversations? That's a different matter.

Yet the only thing stopping you from being able to get the dates that you really want, is that, like Mark, no-one taught you the skills you need to create great dating conversations.

Learn the skills & you'll get the confidence

You might feel in your heart that it's a confidence problem. But where does your confidence come from?

Confidence comes because you know you can do something. Consistently. And get the results you want.

But heading into any situation without training isn't likely to yield you good results. You wouldn't have expected Mark to go up fighting in a jet without training! So why would you expect to be good at dating conversations without having the skills to do it well?

Mark learnt these skills easily. You will too.

Now you know that great dating conversation is a learnable skill, obviously you know that anyone can learn to do this.

The secrets to successful dating conversation

So what were the secrets that Mark learnt to turn his dating skills around?

The secrets are:

1. Knowing and delivering natural conversation openers
2. The right way to respond to someone else's opener
3. Using the 5 principles of interesting conversation
4. Knowing how to keep conversations flowing
5. Having standard answers that create intrigue
6. Being able to grow your conversations
7. Being able to deepen your conversations
8. Flirting with words
9. Talking about them, not about you
10. Date winning conversation closers
11. Mastering how you say it, not just what you say

The blueprint rolled up in the detail of these 11 secrets is what, as Mark said, "completely transformed his confidence and his life."

He learnt them easily and quickly. You can too.

How would you like:

• A blueprint for every dating conversation you'll ever have – and what to do to turn them into date winners?
• 5 different ways to introduce yourself without being corny, obvious or embarrassed?
• The 5 key principles of creating enticing, exciting, date winning conversation?
• An easy to learn guide - what to say, when to say it and how to say it to make your dates successful?
• To create excitement in your potential partner without them even realising what you're doing?

Just in case you're thinking that Mark is a top gun pilot and is bound to be good at learning stuff quickly, here's what Tony (one of my non-James Bond clients) wrote to me recently:

For over 20 years now I've spent time helping clients to transform their relationships and a significant amount of time has been focused on conversation.

I've become a conversational expert through teaching it to others and also refining it myself. I've even transformed myself from the shy guy cowering in the corner at parties to someone who's able to flirt and chat with anyone and is an award winning, highly paid public speaker.

20 years to learn by trial and error

The good news? You don't have to spend 20 years learning how to do this. You don't have to subject yourself to months or years of trial and error either! (Which was painful and frustrating.)

You can take my proven formula for dating conversations and make it work for you too. And I'm ready to walk you through it step by step.

The secrets are easy to understand and easy to learn. How quickly can you get started? Lorna said briefly...

In fact, tomorrow you too could be practicing just one date-yielding conversation closer that doubles your chances of getting your very next date.

Consider your new future:

• How will you feel when your potential partners see you as funny and exciting and desperately want to get to know you better?
• How many more dates will you get when you're easily playing your side of the conversation in an interesting, flirty way - drawing your partners in, almost hypnotically?
• With the blueprint for dating questions, what skilful questions will you conjure up to heighten the excitement of your next potential partner in you?
• How would you love to ditch the inane small talk you hate so much?
• Imagine, what would it be like creating first date conversations that virtually guarantee you a second date, every time?

Wouldn't it be amazing to read in detail about the 11 secrets (or principles) of dating conversation, practice each one for a few days, and become a master of dating conversations?

Master your dating life

So, what would being skilled in those secrets and being a master of winning dates be worth to you in your dating life?

What is it worth to you to double, triple or even quadruple your dates? To love getting into dating conversations? To realise that it's not who you are that has prevented you getting as many dates as you wanted - it's simply some easy to learn skills.

Now I'm going to help you experience all of this dating success too. My public speaking fees are in the $1000's, my 1-1 coaching fees in the $100's and most of the time I'm fully booked up with 1-1 clients. Yet if you, like Mark or Tony, want that kind of personal training then by all means contact me to see if I have availability.

How To Create A Great Speed Dating Conversation

But there is another way to learn and master these dating conversation secrets. I've taken all the conversation information you need and packed it into a comprehensive, highly practical book on creating successful speed dating conversations. (Although it's applicable to pretty much any dating conversation!)

And you can get access to it right now.

Also when you get this downloadable book, as a bonus, you'll get:

• 82 minutes of audio tuition, from a recent dating conversation workshop I held. (That time would be worth well in excess of $100 were I to coach you personally).

You can listen along, gain extra distinctions about creating fantastic conversations, hear the problems that my other clients share with you and the answers to your questions.

Guess what it's being sold for?

The total package value if you were to learn from me personally is US$345. I'm happy to give you this information for less than a tenth of its real value. Just US$39.99.

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Think of it another way.

How many speed dates or nights out have you gone on that haven't yielded you a first date? 10's? 100's?

Let's say an average cost for a night out is US$50.

When you turn just one of your next, missed opportunity nights into one where you get a date, you'll already have paid for your investment 3 times over!

Get the e-book and the workshop audio now, practice the conversational skills and within hours you could be transforming your conversational skills and your ability to turn chats into dates.

Put an end to any more frustrating dating conversations and
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