Coping with Infidelity/Cheating (7)

  Below you’ll find the help on extramarital affairs you need that suits your situation the most.  Whether you’re in one, thinking about one, or you suspect/know your partner is having one, one question at the forefront of your mind or nagging away in the back is WHY? Why me? Forget the 12 reasons this.the 5 categories that.blah, blah. There’s only 1 real reason why an extramarital affair happens. It’s bringing pleasure (or at least it was supposed to bring pleasure) to the person that engaged in it. The reality is that it can cause, and usually does cause, much…
Are you starting to suspect that you have a cheating spouse? I’ve written this page to help you get some idea of the things you must need to know about: How to find out if your spouse really is cheating Why seeking revenge on your cheating spouse is the worst move you can make How to rebuild the relationship, if you want to and regain trust. How to catch a cheating spouse Before you invest too much energy in what may be simple paranoia, let me take you through a quick checklist to work out if your spouse has any…
  You've had an extramarital affair. There are a number of situations you could be in at the moment. Take a look down the following list to find the description that most appropriately describes where you are and then click the link to find the help you need. Split from your spouse How to get over your relationship Want to win back your spouse? Deciding whether to try How to win them back after your extramarital affair Split from your spouse How to get over your relationship You've split from your spouse. I'm hoping that you've either mutually agreed or…
  If you suspect your partner is having an affair you have several choices, namely: Ignore it and continue in ignorance Question why you believe this to be true and work out whether your suspicions are likely to be true Investigate your suspicions before discussing it with your partner Challenge your partner about your suspicions In truth you may well do most or all of the above. Let's take a look at those options in more detail. Ignore it and continue in ignorance You've probably been suspicious for a while. You've been subconsciously suppressing the signals that are now too…
  I'm truly sorry, I know how devastating this is. You probably feel that your world has exploded and you're struggling to piece it back together. No-one wants to go through what you're going through at the moment. If there's any way I can help, let me know. You've got so many feelings going on for you at the moment. Most likely, anger at your partner, anger at the person your partner was fooling around with. Maybe you feel you want revenge. That you'll never want to forgive your partner for doing this to you. Inadequate, because your partner went…
  If you’re having an affair I suspect you’re not reading this to find out how to enjoy your affair more! So what are your concerns? Are you worried you’re going to get found out and your main relationship will disintegrate? That your partner will never forgive you? Are you looking for a way out of your main relationship? Or out of your affair? Do you want to know whether your partner knows you’re having an extramarital affair? Those are some of the common concerns. Let me take you through my thoughts on them. Worried about being found out When…
  Having an affair obviously has serious implications. Here are some thoughts and questions you need to answer if you're thinking of having an affair and want to know whether it's the wrong or right move for you. The Pro's It's exciting You'll probably quickly get what you're after - sex, affection, excitement - what ever it is that's missing for you It'll reinforce you're desirable, which is an ego boost to anyone It could lead to a new and better relationship The Con's It will also bring massive pain - for you, for your partner and most likely for…

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