Comments on: Where are all the suitable men? http://www.therelationshipgym.com/newsletters/where-are-all-the-suitable-men.htm www.therelationshipgym.com Mon, 28 Jun 2010 13:12:49 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: yeeliu http://www.therelationshipgym.com/newsletters/where-are-all-the-suitable-men.htm/comment-page-1#comment-479 yeeliu Thu, 18 Feb 2010 15:20:20 +0000 http://www.therelationshipgym.com/newsletters/?p=289#comment-479 Michael Yes, I keep asking myself this question - awesome article and keeps me wondering. But I carry on regardless and keep hoping. Also like your new videos - and amazing shirts - and now I know what you really look like. So as a long time client, do I get the answer to the question or have I still a long way to go? So I am testing whether this process works now and whether I get a response. Yee-Liu PS Have you thought about a favicon for your website so we can identify you easily for bookmarking? It's a one minute job and helps to locate you under my favourites ... Michael

Yes, I keep asking myself this question – awesome article and keeps me wondering. But I carry on regardless and keep hoping.

Also like your new videos – and amazing shirts – and now I know what you really look like.

So as a long time client, do I get the answer to the question or have I still a long way to go?

So I am testing whether this process works now and whether I get a response.

Yee-Liu

PS Have you thought about a favicon for your website so we can identify you easily for bookmarking? It’s a one minute job and helps to locate you under my favourites …

]]> By: Zaq http://www.therelationshipgym.com/newsletters/where-are-all-the-suitable-men.htm/comment-page-1#comment-477 Zaq Tue, 19 Jan 2010 17:50:33 +0000 http://www.therelationshipgym.com/newsletters/?p=289#comment-477 I must comment on this as I have experienced several speed dating events in the last year. As a man I have experienced the other side of this. Although I had read that women were extremely picky at these events, i must say I was shocked to see how much. At the first event I attended, I enjoyed the evening, but I felt that the time allowed was insufficient to draw any conclusions, and not being totally conversant with how these things work, I thought what the heck and put a cross next to everybody. A few days later I receive an e-mail "Congratulations you have been successful" - Yeh!, no doubt a number of the attendees were bowled over by my witty and charming persona. I quickly dive in to discover the full extent of my success: Number of women who would like to date you again - NIL Number of women who would never consider dating a loser like you but, if push comes to shove would consider adding you to their long list of friends - One OK may have paraphrased a little here. What were all these middle aged single mothers expecting ? I have tried to make myself as attractive as possible. I look after my body, in the gym several times a week, do the equivalent of a couple of marathons a week in the summer. Most of my friends would say I was the life and soul of the party - you may have seen me out and about performing shakespeare or stand up comedy. I try to get by on the six figure income I get from the company I own. And no, I did not spend all the time talking about myself, and yes I did keep things light and fun. The other events were exactly the same. So do I fit into the "social liabilty" section or the "barely passable" section ? It would appear the results are the same. I must comment on this as I have experienced several speed dating events in the last year.
As a man I have experienced the other side of this. Although I had read that women were extremely picky at these events, i must say I was shocked to see how much.
At the first event I attended, I enjoyed the evening, but I felt that the time allowed was insufficient to draw any conclusions, and not being totally conversant with how these things work, I thought what the heck and put a cross next to everybody.
A few days later I receive an e-mail “Congratulations you have been successful” – Yeh!, no doubt a number of the attendees were bowled over by my witty and charming persona. I quickly dive in to discover the full extent of my success:
Number of women who would like to date you again – NIL
Number of women who would never consider dating a loser like you but, if push comes to shove would consider adding you to their long list of friends – One
OK may have paraphrased a little here. What were all these middle aged single mothers expecting ?
I have tried to make myself as attractive as possible. I look after my body, in the gym several times a week, do the equivalent of a couple of marathons a week in the summer. Most of my friends would say I was the life and soul of the party – you may have seen me out and about performing shakespeare or stand up comedy. I try to get by on the six figure income I get from the company I own.

And no, I did not spend all the time talking about myself, and yes I did keep things light and fun.
The other events were exactly the same.
So do I fit into the “social liabilty” section or the “barely passable” section ? It would appear the results are the same.

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