How To Meet 10 Gorgeous Partners Every Night
Wednesday, June 28th, 2006How much easier would your dating life be if you knew you could go out and virtually guarantee to talk to 5-10 gorgeous potential partners in one night?!
Where can you go and meet more potential dates than you’d get on a speed dating event? And what if you could go there, hone your flirting skills freely and never have shyness enter the equation?
There’s only one place I know of where you can do this and I think it’s time to tell you. In my professional opinion this is the single finest asset in any single person’s life. It’s…
‘Ceroc‘.
What is Ceroc I hear you ask?
Ceroc is a combination of Jive and Salsa dancing that is taught in such a way that it’s practically impossible not to look great after a couple of lessons. Even I managed to learn it well enough to earn a couple of smiles.
I like to view it as speed dating to music, but in my view it’s even better than speed dating because if the person irritates you or is just plain uninteresting you can just stop talking and will not be considered rude. At a speed date you get 20 dates in a night, at Ceroc it’s more like 50.
The lessons are taught in such a way that you are forever moving on to the next person who’s hopefully even more attractive than the one you’re currently dancing with.
Clearly not everyone you meet in the lesson is going to be single but it’s all good practice for making a great first impression. As far as I’m concerned your challenge is to make sure that everyone you meet likes you just that little bit more after each 3 minute contact.
When it comes to dating my main requirement of my clients is that they date a lot of people. It’s foolish getting stuck on one guy in the attraction phase when you don’t even know which football team he supports. Much better to have your options wide open at this phase.
On an average night there’s going to be roughly 200 people in the room, let’s say that gets you 100 people of the opposite sex. At a conservative estimate 10 of these are going to be gorgeous and 5 of them may even be available. The good news is that at a ‘Ceroc’ event you are given all the permission you need to approach someone, ask them to dance, and see if you can work your way into their affections.
My friend David says that dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire. The idea is that in some way each dance you have with someone is a mini seduction. There is a beginning, a middle and an end. What you do with that time is entirely up to you.
If you’re one of my clients you’d be practicing your flirting skills and making everyone you dance with feel really good about themselves and their time with you. Some people are really good at this, others not so great. There is a world of difference between ‘thanks for the dance’ and ‘that was, really, really good, let’s do it again sometime soon.’
The continual exposure to new people in what becomes quite a safe environment is great for allowing people to get over their shyness, because let’s face it, shyness is rarely sexy. Unless you’re one of those sad souls that actually enjoys those ‘project’ types.
Dancing is physical and that for a single person is a very good thing. I believe that without touch humans begin to wither away. It’s as if their inner spark begins to dim. This is a disaster in the dating world as it can appear that your sexual pilot light has gone out and you’re no longer in the game.
Some people that have been single for a while start to come across as a bit asexual and it’s just not attractive. Well if you’re dancing that’s never going to happen. I don’t want that to sound sleazy because it’s not - normal rules still apply. If you’re uncomfortable with the kind of touching you get from a particular partner then you can correct it and then avoid ever dancing with them again. I did once get groped in a way I was fairly uncomfortable with but she never got near me again!
‘Ceroc’ has a whole community of enthusiasts and, in London at least, you can go dancing on any night of the week. You never need to be bored and alone again. And being out and about dramatically increases the chances of you meeting someone you can get wild about. The chances of Mr. Right crashing through the ceiling of your living room are relatively small so it’s good to get out more. So ‘let’s get physical!’
Michael
Other things I like about Ceroc
- It’s pretty much alcohol free as it’s really very difficult to be co-ordinated whilst drunk. This means that generally you can trust people to behave appropriately and there is much less chance of you making a dreadful mistake due to the ‘beer goggles’ kicking in.
- It’s a great testing ground for finding out if you are hot or not. Given you’ll be meeting so many people in an evening you get a good feel for how you are being received. Either you’re earning compliments on how you look or you’re not. If you’re not, see a stylist.
- You’re learning something that is fun to talk about and will generally make you a big hit at any party, especially if you’re male. You’ll learn how to lead which means you can make anyone look good on the dance floor. Think about how impressed you are when you see someone able to spin their partner and multiply that by 100 and that’s how impressive you could be.
- Couples start doing Ceroc in order to learn a great first dance for their wedding. If you manage to get lucky enough with someone you meet dancing, and it’s not unusual, this is never going to be an issue. Your family will be dead impressed with your moves.
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