Archive for the 'Singles/Dating' Category
Why Am I Single?
Wednesday, December 5th, 2007I don’t know if you’ve noticed yet but we’re in the run up to Christmas. I say this because I’d like you to notice you have a lot to gain. I’ve been working with people looking for love who continually ask themselves ‘Why am I single’ for so long that I can safely say that […]
14 out of 20 men prefer her – Why?
Wednesday, November 7th, 2007I’m very big on the idea of multiple dating as a way of finding your perfect partner. The early pieces of work I do with each of my clients allows them to get very clear on what they’re looking for in a relationship; we then work out what’s getting in the way of getting that.
The […]
Social Proof
Wednesday, October 10th, 2007Some time ago now I wrote a newsletter on where to find the love of your life. I wanted to share something with you that’s very closely related. It’s key to your success in getting dates once you’ve tracked down where your likely partners are hanging out.
It’s critical that you take advantage of the phenomenon […]
A Life Drenched in Love
Wednesday, August 29th, 2007I was recently talking with a coaching friend of mine about what it takes for successful living and her criteria was remarkably simple. The foundation for her success (and trust me, she’s successful) is a life drenched in love. I liked the idea so much I’ve been using it with my clients, particularly those who […]
Early Signs of the Wrong Relationship
Wednesday, August 15th, 2007One of my favourite activities, assuming that the water is warm enough, is to body surf. It’s a simple enough concept - surfing without the board. I just love swimming out into the sea and getting flung around while pretending to be in control of where I’m heading. Given I started late I’ve never been […]
Weight-ing for Dating?
Wednesday, July 11th, 2007This started out as an article about food and became one about addiction. Why is this relevant to your relationships? Only because addictions can have a massively negative impact on your ability to either get with a great partner or hold on to one when you’ve found them. In fact an active addiction running in […]
Flirting Advice for Finesse
Wednesday, June 13th, 2007Summer is here and that’s really good news if you’re single and looking for love. The increased light levels have a positive effect on energy levels and more importantly cause a rise in your hormones leading to an increased desire to procreate. Put more simply, anyone out and about who’s single right now isn’t going […]
Dealing With Heartbreak
Wednesday, May 16th, 2007I have a client who’s dealing with heartbreak. She recently broke up with someone she considered to be the love of her life. It happened very recently and as a result Christine* is feeling really raw. She wrote me a very pained email detailing just how totally overwhelmed she felt by her grief.
As often […]
Approaching Women, Attracting Men
Wednesday, May 2nd, 2007What would you rather do?
Approach an attractive stranger or go to war?
I regularly have people tell me that they’re scared to death to approach people of the opposite sex, specifically the ones they fancy. Such a tragedy.
At its worst it means you end up with a world of people in relationships they never really […]
It’s A Lot Like Buying A House!
Wednesday, April 4th, 2007About six months ago Mary came to me because she was sick of being single - except for the occasional bout of dating a guy who turned out to be totally unsuitable. She was eager to change her situation and wanted to know exactly how to do it. As I took Mary through our coaching […]