Eliminating Repression

How are you at eliminating those niggling issues about your partner when they're only at the resistance stage? Do you tend to let them go because it's no big deal? Only to find that those issues gradually wind you up more and more. All you need is the development of one or two easy to master skills…

...such as the correct way to tell your partner that something is disturbing you.

Letting the niggles slide

If you're like most partners in a relationship you just let the little resistances you feel slide. After all, they're no big deal – right? And your parents never, let alone regularly, sat and openly discussed the small niggles in a civilised manner, so it's not ‘normal' behaviour.

Or if you do pick your partner up on the little things, you either end up in an argument which builds into resentment anyway, or you get accused of nagging. So why would you want to try and deal with them?

The path to relationship destruction

From a coaches and counsellors view, I've seen too many niggles turn into nightmares to let you continue in your relationships this way. Letting the niggles go is the path to destruction of every relationship – even though it seems so innocuous at the beginning. Because if you don't address the small niggles they turn into complaints. Into arguments. Into resentment, repression and, over the course of months or years, a relationship that loses its true love, fun and passion.

If that's where you are now, there is a way back from this. To repair your relationship, to start addressing the niggles when they're small and eliminate them before they ever grow bigger.

Learn the skills you need to prevent it

If you're somewhere between resentment and repression with your partner, or even if you're with a new partner and you want to stop it ever getting there, just 1 session of coaching may be enough to teach you the skills you need. The skills to have the conversation with your partner that will stop the niggles from growing larger and driving that wedge between the two of you. The skills to say the things you want to your partner without it blowing up into an argument.

Reserve yourself a 30 minute coaching session, learn the easy skills that will last you a lifetime and make a radical difference in your personal relationships.

These sessions are only one offs at a specially discounted price of £39.99 and because of my limited coaching time available between 1-1 clients, there are only 9 sessions left in February. These spaces will more than likely be gone within hours of you receiving our newsletter as more than 3300 people are also reading this now. So if you don't want to miss out, make sure you book now and guarantee getting a place to learn the skills that will transform the future of your relationships.