Dating Advice for Women
Where do you find the best men? Where do you go on your date? Where do you draw your boundaries for the date and ultimately how will you get your perfect partner?
Finding the best men
Are you struggling to find some decent men to date?
If you feel like you only meet dorks and are getting paranoid about all the good ones having been snapped up then there's one of two problems. Either you're...
1. Not clear on who you're after, or
2. Looking in the wrong places
Or maybe you have no difficulty tracking down good looking men, but you're just struggling to get those critical first dates. If that's the case then you need some tips on flirting.
Did you know that a university generated scientific dating study has proven that your ability to flirt is the only key to getting dates? It has very little to do with how you look. How's that for an eye opener?
Where to go on your date?
You want to have fun, make an impression, make him want to date you again. So is picking the venue the critical factor?
No!
If you're going to hit it off, then it doesn't matter too much whether it's a seedy breakfast cafe sheltering from the pouring rain or gazing together over the night lit Eiffel tower.
Having said that, you do want to create an environment that's conducive to having fun. Because (just to conflict with what I've said!) a fun and memorable date creates a positive halo effect. If they like the experience, they'll also like you more too.
But then if you're an expert dater your first date definitely isn't the one that you should be worrying about the venue on.
Where do you draw your boundaries?
Are all men just after sex?
No.
Would most men like to have sex with you on the first date?
Probably!
The good news is that you hold the keys to the kingdom. If a man is truly interested in dating you then they'll wait a lot longer than you'd might expect. I've always recommended 2 months or at least 6 dates before having sex.
Sounds like a long time? Yes, but if you're really wanting to find mr. right it's an ideal way of cutting out the 'messers' and saving your heart from unnecessary hurt.
How do you find your ideal mate?
1. Know who you're after
2. Become the partner that will attract them
3. Date relentlessly
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