Client Testimonials

With laser sharp provocation and wicked humour Michael has managed to melt down my wall of defences.

My friends say I have opened up, become lighter, more spontaneous and fun.

I used to approach men with a kind of dormant but tangible hostility. This has vanished and my unleashed flirtatious powers are getting me more attention than I can handle …"

Darcy

I am having the best s** ever thanks to you!

And, enjoying being single and have finally moved on big time, life is cool, life is great, THANKS, THANKS, THANKS.

This is gonna be a great year for me! You are ACE baby.  Can't thank you enough.

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Hi Michael!

I figure that sometimes you might wonder what happens to some of your clients after you help them to reach deep inside.

Well....I can say from personal experience that all that coaching (and some follow up) REALLY made a spectacular difference! 

You helped me to drag out some serious skeletons that were haunting me and now they are gone and so peacefully put to rest! 

All the best,

Karen

Its strange but I remember thinking how can a stranger help me when none of my family and friends who have known me for years can.

But you did and for that I am truly grateful. I am not sure of the ending yet but I know that I
will never go back to that version of me.

Pamela

Four months ago, I was in a state of near-total despair, after my partner had upped and left suddenly, with hardly any explanation. I couldn't see how to get on without him and could hardly function at all, even at work. I certainly would never have believed in the likelihood of finding anyone else to share my life with. I felt completely alone.

However, coaching with Michael helped me put my life back together, assess the relationship anew and finally let go and move on.

Now, I am finding new friends, taking on new activities that I had never dreamt of doing and, yes, going on dates. I feel excited, enthusiastic, full of energy and life.

I look back and cannot recognise the woman I was just a few short months ago. And, although I have yet to meet Mr Right, I am convinced that he is just round the corner...

Stephanie

One of the areas I asked Michael to help me with was preparing an internet dating profile.

Michael was upfront and honest in providing his
"unprintable" comments on the first draft of the profile. However, with his advice on photographs and some further redrafting, I had a profile which started to receive the sort of responses you sceptically read about on a website selling cheap internet dating e-books.

Aged 54, no relationship for 10 years, and life feeling rather dreary, I turned to Michael for help in getting back to the dating game.

It was pretty scary, but I took all his suggestions on board even though it was incredibly hard sometimes.

What Michael does is to accelerate your progress towards your goal. He has given me so much confidence in myself, I cannot tell you how wonderful that is. 

The preparation has paid off, I have been inundated with replies, last week I dated 3 men. I'm meeting interesting people and having a ball. I feel like I've rejoined the human race.

Una

I am male aged 28. I am naturally quite a shy person and, as a result, I have always found it difficult initiating contact with women. I decided, however, approximately one year ago that I would make a conscious effort to conquer my fear of approaching women. At that time, I began making a real effort to chat to women in bars and clubs. While I will not pretend I found the experience particularly easy, after about six months I had largely dealt with my fear of approaching women: I was able to approach random women and talk to them.

I found, however, that, while I could chat with women and get their telephone numbers, I could never persuade them afterwards to meet up with me for dates. Further, I was never able to persuade women to kiss me. It was for this reason that I contacted Michael.

After I had explained to Michael the problem I was encountering, he suggested that one difficulty was that I came across as a rather cold person who was not good at discussing his feelings. When we chatted about this, I realised it had a lot to do with the strained relationship I had had with a member of my family. This really surprised me, because I never made the connection between this family relationship and my problems attracting women.

Michael and I talked at length about this difficult family relationship and I learned to discuss the way I felt about it. This was very helpful, because it made me generally less fearful of discussing my feelings. This, in itself, has definitely made me for appealing to women: I am not as “wooden” as I think I probably was previously.

We also spent time discussing techniques for turning a conversation with a woman towards sex and relationships. Again, this was really helpful. I realised that it is possible, in effect, to follow a script when chatting up a woman: there are a few topics of conversation which will persuade a woman to talk about sex and relationships 75 percent of the time.

Being coached by Michael has really made a big difference to me. I have been on more dates in the past two months than I had previously gone on in two years. Furthermore, I don’t really have to work on chatting women up anymore. I am sure the reason for this is that I seem a lot happier and more content in myself.

Ben

I called Michael in desperation last February after a sudden unanticipated split from my partner of 8 years. The truth is that I was devastated and spent half of my sessions (and the rest of the time) in tears and desperate
to get him back.

Talking to Michael was however amazing. I loved the way he told me like it is (ie: the guys a loser: stop wasting your time on him. You have lots of great times ahead with far better guys" This was very different to the therapist I spoke to briefly (ie: so what do you think? How does that make you feel.etc... ie NO ADVISE OR GUIDANCE.)

My chats with Michael were like speaking to a   straight male friend who has loads of relationship experience and skills and the technical and professional background to view
what is happening  from a guys perspective (for the guys out there, I know he has an amazing understanding of the woman's perspective too) and also speaks his mind. That is what I needed.

It took me 2 months to finally get it, but since the penny dropped,  I have been asked out 6 times in 2 weeks (using Michael's flirting techniques and encouragement to take what I call "trainer dates") AND my ex desperately
wants me back (although there's no way that is happening as I am having too much fun!).

Sharon

I'm pleased to report another success story here.............

I was about two thirds of the way through FMR (hadn't even quite finished section 2) and met the man of my dreams, its still early days but we are both disgustingly happy and have never experienced such an amazing connection.

This e-book definitely helped me to grow and complete the final bit of my personal journey to my Mr Right.

Your wonderful e-book and the exercises were so useful and helped me to turn a corner. It certainly helped me to know what I want /need, how to attract the right person and gave me the confidence to not compromise in what I know I deserve. It also reaffirmed to me how to be a great partner to my man!!! Thank you.

Claire

I finally managed to get around to sorting my profile out! I followed all the instructions as given, i really didnt expect what would happen as a result.

In three weeks i've had 60 emails, to be honest i'm not sure what to do, i cant keep up with it all!!!

There are 4 guys that i particularly like, which is great and i've started dating 2 of them, hoping to see the other two in the next week or so.

I cant even believe i'm talking about dating 4 different men within a matter of weeks, i'm used to dating once a year if that!!!

Clare

The other day I replied that I had not started to work through your book but I have started now.

Crazy though it seems I have just been through the most painful relationship in my life and it all makes sense why it could never work by just writing down my 4 needs.

Thank you for this help.  I will be truly grateful if this helps me - not necessarily to find Mr Right but to definately understand why I met Mr Wrong!!

Warm wishes

Freda

I downloaded your (Finding Mr. Right)book last night and am finding it very insightful.

I'm a single parent, 40 and with the children grown have a chance to now focus of finding mr. right and considering what i want in a partner.

Thank u for writing an 'no-fluff' book which is practically and focused.

Anna

Having been to a party yesterday and having had such a brilliant time talking to about 30 guys. I can honestly say that I am much more relaxed and have dropped a lot of my swords … (cutting defences).

So no need to reply just to tell you : you do great work out there and it has worked wonders for me !!!!

It is an excellent book!

Dan